kenapa harus saling menyakiti??
Tepatnya baru kemarin aku mendapat tausiyah dari sebuah kajian muslimah onlen yg bertemakan “Indahnya persaudaraan Islam”, begitu banyak uraian hadist indah yang sering kudengar dan aku tidak pernah bosan mendengarnya berulang dan berulang……karena setiap baitnya bermakna sangat indah…
akan aku kutipkan sedikit kajian yg aku dengar itu ya….
Memenuhi hak sesama muslim dibagi menjadi 2, hak umum dan hak khusus.
Hak umum: Dikenal melalui hadist yg bersumber dr Abu Hurairah, Rasulullah berkata: “Hak muslim atas muslim lainnya ada 6: menjawab salam, menghadiri undangan, memberi nasehat, mendoakannya bila bersin, menjenguknya bila sakit, dan mengantarkan jenazahnya” (HR Muslim)
sedangkan yg meliputi hak khusus adalah :
- berinteraksi dlm segala hal Mestinya, saudara sesama muslim kita jadikan teman dlm meniti kehidupan beragama kita. Teman dalam suka dan duka, ada rasa saling memiliki dan memahami. Bahkan berusaha unk mementingkan urusan saudaranya dr urusannya sendiri sbg wujud pengorbanan tulus untuk membahagiakan saudaranya.
- menutup aib Aib saudara sesama muslim wajib disimpan demi menjaga kehormatannya. Ini akan terwujud jk ada kesadaran bahwa aib saudaranya seakan2 aibnya sendiri. Rasulullah bersabda: “Tidaklah seorang hamba menutup aib hamba yg lain, kecuali Allah menutupi keburukannya pada hari kiamat” (HR Muslim)
indah sekali bukan kutipan hadist diatas?????
aku membacanya berulang dan berulang dan setiapkali aku baca yang timbul adalah rasa cintaku pada Allah, Rosul dan saudara-saudaraku yang istiqamah dijalan Islam…
hingga hari ini…
ada seorang saudara yang aku percaya ternyata malah membicarakan ttg kejelekanku dibelakangku, sakit, kecewa, sedih dan berbagai ungkapan yg tidak bisa aku lukiskan ada dibenakku ketika mengetahui hal ini. Kenapa sebagai saudara dia tidak mengungkapkan ketidaksukaannya dihadapanku???? Apakah mungkin ada haknya sebagai saudara yg tidak aku penuhi???
aku salah apa???aku ga pernah menyakiti dia??lalu kenapa dia menyakiti hati aku??
“afwan…..” terucap dari lisannya begitu mudah…..mengalir begitu cepat menyelusuri rongga dadaku yang masih sesak.
kenapa kalimat itu harus diucapkan setelah luka itu hadir dihatiku ???
aku ini manusia biasa yang punya banyak kekurangan…..tidak mampukah dirimu menerima aku apaadanya??
tidak siapkah dirimu menerima segala kelemahan yg ada didalam diriku?pikirku…masih dengan menahan segala emosi yang meledak-ledak
tapi aku memutuskan diam….aku ambil air wudhu dan shalat….
aku cuma bisa menangis dan berdoa….semoga Allah mengampuni hamba yang tidak sempurna ini..mengampuni hamba yang dzholim ini, mengampuni mereka yang bersuudzhon dan memberikan limpahan nikmatNya pada mereka….
kenapa kita harus saling menyakiti???
assalamu’alaikum ya akhie…setiap insan mempunyai penyakit hati yang berbeza dan juga kelebihan ang berbeza…kekeruhan yang berlaku tetap menyakitkan…namun maaf itu amat bernilai…ingatlah seerah tatkala Abu Bakar memaafkan saudaranya yang menyebarkan fitnah pd Aisyah…bagaimana dia memaafkan kerana dia mahu ALLAH memaafkan dia…remember forgiveness is for yourself… If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive…
Comment by sakinah — 2 February 2005 @ 5:14 am
Assalamualikumwr,wb
apabila ada seseorang menyakiti kita dengan menusuk dari belakang,bagaikan musuh dalam selimut, memang menyakitkan … tapi sekali lagi ini mungkin ujian dari Allah untuk kita sampai sebatas mana kesabaran kita, tidak ada yang sempurna didunia ini , dan kalo menurut aku pribadi mungkin kita juga harus intropeksi diri kita , dan mencari apa yang salah dengan diri kita sehingga mereka bisa berbuat seperti itu,, dan satu hal lagi jangan juga bersedih hati karena setiap manusia didunia ini ga’ luput dari masalah dunia karena itulah hidup yang sesungguhnya,dengan masalah yang ada akan membuat kita lebih dewasa dan lebih bijak dalam menjalani kehidupan ini .
Comment by root — 8 February 2005 @ 2:54 am
assalamualaikum. wr. wb
memang menyakitkan jika kita diperlakukan seperti itu, tapi alangkah baiknya jika semua itu kita kembalikan kepada Allah. SWT, dialah yang memiliki kesempurnaan, kita sebagai hambaNya yang tidak sempurna hanya bisa menyerahkan semua kepada Nya, itulah koderat kita sebagai hambaNya yang selalu diuji dan terus diuji dengan 2 hal enak dan tidak enak, insya allah jika semua ujian itu kita serahkan dan kita kembalikan kepada Allah.SWT, kita akan dapat menjalani hal itu dengan sabar, tawaqal dan berserah diri.
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